How do you find a unique gift?
The most unique gifts are not necessarily expensive, but contain a personal message, story or experience that can't easily be imitated by someone else.
Carmen Molendijk ·
Finding a unique gift is not a matter of luck, it is a matter of asking the right questions. If you have ever scrolled through web shops for hours without finding anything, you know how darn frustrating that can be. Still, there is a clear pattern in gifts that do feel unique. In this article we gladly explain how you can apply that pattern yourself, which is pretty handy ;-).
Why most gifts don't feel unique
Most gifts we buy are available to anyone. A set of personal care products, a gadget, a set of glasses, it is all perfectly nice, but not distinctive. A personal, unique gift feels different, simply because it can't just be bought by someone else. It carries something of you, or of the relationship between you and the person you want to give it to.
Three characteristics of a truly unique gift
- It can't easily be copied. A unique gift contains something only you can add: a memory, a joke, a personal message.
- It takes time, not just money. The most appreciated gifts are often not the most expensive, but the ones in which you can tell time was invested.
- It surprises in the execution, not just in the idea. A good idea is lovely, but it is the way the gift is given that makes it truly unforgettable.
How do you find such a gift in practice?
Don't start with the gift, start with the person. Ask yourself questions like: what has this person been through lately? What does this person really value? Which memories do we share, and which of those would be nice to revisit?
Starting with the person you are giving the gift to is exactly the idea behind a Wishly. Instead of choosing a standard product, you write the wishes yourself, and they are programmed into a fun packaging of your choice. No two Wishlys are ever the same, simply because the content always comes from you.
Unique gift for specific moments
A unique gift doesn't have to be limited to birthdays. Think of a personal Christmas gift: instead of yet another Christmas hamper, you can choose something with a personal message per day, counting down to Christmas. Especially during the holidays, when everyone is looking for the right Christmas gift, a personalised Christmas gift often stands out among the standard options.
A few practical tips to get started
- Ask around among people who know the recipient well; the best ideas often come from a combination of memories.
- Look not only at the gift itself, but also at the moment of giving. Could you spread the gift over several days?
- Dare to keep it simple. Unique doesn't mean complicated, it means personal.
Let's sum it all up...
Finding a unique gift is less about searching and more about looking at what is already there: your shared history, your memories, and the time you are willing to invest. Want to get inspired? Then also read our article with 25 unique gift ideas.